Wednesday, October 27, 2010

So Fresh and so Clean - Clean...

I read a post on another blog today about cleaning tips for fall... if you're like me, it's quite possible that there just aren't enough hours in the day to "wash all of your drapes according to the instructions" or "vacuum under your mattress, wash and change out your "spring" linens for your winter ones" or anything of that nature. (seriously, do people actually have "spring" linens and "winter" linens? Maybe that only applies to places that actually experience seasons, instead of just two temperatures -- hot and cold). We have a blessing of a cleaning lady that does the hard stuff in our house, like mopping bathroom floors, cleaning showers, and scrubbing toilets. But she only comes every-other week. So I employ a method that helps me keep the house at a decently-clean level. Because, seriously, who wants to come home at the end of a 12 hour workday to a messy, disgusting house? Not me, that's for sure.

Here are my top 10 tips to keeping things tidy:
1. Sort mail every day. Mail is an issue. Frank brings in the mail every day when he gets home from work, and there are always 5 or so catalogues and a variety of paper ads in the pile. We immediately sort the mail -- Catalogs we don't read go into the trash/recycle bin, post-card ads are tossed, bills go into the office in an organizer to be paid, and the catalogs I want to read are set aside. If it's a monthly mailer (J.Crew, Anthropologie, Pottery Barn, etc.) I typically read those after dinner while we watch a little TV, and then throw them away. Immediately. Magazines like Elle, Marie Claire, Traditional Home, etc. are read and saved for a while (and then likely end up in the recycle bin, unless there's something important in them I'd like to save).

2. Take 10 minutes at the end of the day to "pick up" after yourself. Before I go to sleep every night, I remove all of the cups, Popsicle sticks, read magazines, etc. from the den and put them away. The pillows are fluffed ottoman pushed back into place, and the TV remote put back into the tray. Things are put away in the kitchen, sweaters hung in the closet where they belong, and shoes tucked neatly into their box. If I waited until the weekend to try and put away all of the accumulated clutter that occurs after the end of each day, it would take me an hour. 10 minutes is much more manageable.

3. Have a place. For everything. If things have a "spot" somewhere in your home, it's easy to put them away. Having a designated place for most of your belongings eliminates the "Now where in the heck am I going to put this?" game that so many of us play. Your socks, shoes, sweaters, pants, jewelry, laundry, mail, -- everything should have a designated spot. That way, when it comes in the door, you know where it's going. And it doesn't end up in a pile in the corner.

4. Keep the floor of the closet clean. The fastest way to create a lengthy cleaning session for yourself is by throwing clothing on the floor of your closet and leaving it there. (I know mom, I am a reformed closet-floor-clothing hoarder). That goes for shoes, towels, bags, you name it. It's a lot easier to hang a sweater, dress, and top up at the end of the day than it is to hang up 5 sweaters, 2 tops, 3 bags, 7 pairs of pants, 8 pairs of shoes, 2 belts, a few necklaces, and those shopping bags of new purchases, right? I also always find that if I'm super tired at the end of the day and just leave my things on the floor, that they tend to multiply. And then you're left with wrinkled dirty clothing that smells like feet because it sat on top of your shoes all night long. Ick. I have an organized place for everything in my closet too, and use special hangers (the new velvet slimline version) to keep clothing from sliding off. That way, I'm excited to get dressed every morning -- rather than ticked off that I keep stepping on the stiletto heel of those fabulous black suede boots I wore to work yesterday.

5. Clean out the pantry/fridge when you bring home groceries. I typically buy groceries every Saturday morning, if at all possible. When I return, as I put things away I also throw out things that have expired or are empty. This is common sense. Why wait until you've designated a "time" to clean out the fridge when it takes two seconds to check the expiration date on the jar of pickles or squeeze mustard that you just put brand new mayonnaise next to? Save yourself the hour it would take, and spend less than 10 minutes when you bring home groceries to keep things in order.

6. Fold and put away laundry as soon as it comes out of the dryer. This is a big one. I'll admit, it's a pet peeve of mine to see towels that are left on a table long enough to become heinously wrinkled prior to folding. Same goes for sheets. Or shirts. Or socks. Or white undershirts (Frank) for that matter. Just as with everything else, it's easier to fold one load of laundry and put it away than it is to fold 10 loads of laundry and spend an entire half a day finding the place where said piece of laundry belongs. I try to set aside one day a week where I will iron things that need to be ironed, most of which belong to Franklin (except for our sheets). Once things begin to pile up on our laundry table downstairs, I tend to employ the forgetful avoidance technique until the pile builds up beyond belief. And then I'm disgusted with myself for letting it get to that point, and sweaty after the 20 trips up and down the stairs it takes to put everything away. Are you sensing a theme here? 10 minutes today saves you an hour later.

7. Keep cleaning wipes underneath your bathroom sink. If you're a woman who wears makeup, I'm sure you've noticed that the powder and blush you put on your face each day tends to settle on your bathroom counter. Add into that toothpaste, beard trimmings, moisturizer, contact lens solution, etc. and the bathroom counter can become a rather disgusting place pretty quickly. Thus, I do a quick wipedown of our bathroom counter every morning after I brush my teeth before I head out the door. Bonus, it also protects against germs in cold and flu season. I prefer Clorox Green wipes, but every brand has their own version at this point and I'll typically use whatever I had a coupon for instead.

8. Avoid the tendency to stack things on the kitchen counter. My husband is a clutter monster. He currently (thanks to United Airlines Skymiles' program) subscribes to about a MILLION magazines which arrive at least 2 at a time in the mail every day. These magazines would typically end up stacked next to our stove on our kitchen counter, if I were not the kitchen counter nazi. Along with those magazines, a variety of Fritos or Tostitos products, bills, leftovers, bread, keys, cell phones, glasses, sunglasses, and numerous other odds and ends would also end up sitting on our already crowded kitchen counters at the end of the day. Now, imagine at the end of every day walking into your home, and the first thing you see is a kitchen counter with every inch of counter top covered by clutter. I don't think so. Find a place, and put it away.

9. Have a system. If you can tell, items 1-8 are my "system." If you find a routine that works for you to contain the daily household clutter, use it -- the same way, over and over and over again. I'll admit, I am methodical to a fault. I get ready the same way, in the same order, every single day. I put my makeup on the same way, in the same order, every single day. Routine seems to make things easier for me (hello, OCD?) but I also think it's ok to use autopilot to keep things going when your 1 year old wakes you up at 3:45 AM (like mine did last night). At this point, our routine really is on autopilot. And while I keep up with the routine, it's easy to perform it... which brings me to the final point--

10. Be diligent. The fastest way for my house to get uber-cluttered and gross is for me to be super busy at work and just "let things go" for awhile. That typically results in a months worth of clutter everywhere from the kitchen counters to the downstairs laundry table, and a bunch of clothing that must be taken to the dry cleaners because it smells like feet. And then it takes me a day -- or two-- on the weekend, when I'd rather be spending time with my family, to put things back in order. 10 minutes a day saves me a lot of time later, and the best part is that those 10 minutes are typically after Franklin has gone to bed-- meaning I haven't lost any of my time with him at the end of the day.
So that's how things run in our household. Frank would tell you that I'm a cleaning nazi. I agree. But it seems to work for me... and I don't have a mini heart-attack if someone drops in after work without notice, or wants to stop by on a weekend. Happy Hump Day!

Friday, October 22, 2010

Exactly One Year Ago Today...

I looked like this:




Following one of my final OB appointments, the discovery that my blood pressure had increased 10 points and I'd gained 3 pounds in 2 days, it was time for our sweet baby boy to arrive. I was admitted to the hospital, hooked up to an IV drip to decrease my blood pressure and equipped with a fetal heartrate monitor to listen to my little one inside my tummy for those final few hours. Franklin was born the next morning! I must say, I am a LOT happier right now than I was a year ago (and about 80 pounds lighter) -- this past year has just been unforgettable, and now I have this precious little man to show for it:



Less than 24 hours until we mark his first birthday!! Complete with 8 teeth and a double ear infection, yippee!! Happy birthday, buddy.

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Two Weeks

Two weeks from today voters from across the country will head to the polls to exercise the only individual right granted in our Constitution. Here in Alabama, things have taken a rather nasty turn. While I strongly hinted earlier this election season about my dissatisfaction with a particular race here in my home county, I tried to refrain from providing specifics -- this is supposed to be a blog about my family, after all.

However, a story broke this week that confirmed our suspicions regarding a smear campaign targeted at Republican Gubernatorial candidate Bradley Byrne during the primary and run-off this past summer. Specifically, a source has confirmed that the Bentley campaign sought the help of the AEA and Paul Hubbert to defeat Byrne in the run-off-- a fact that Bentley vehemently denied. The AEA phone tree that nearly all members of the AEA received the week of the run-off? You know, the one that encouraged all AEA members to cross over and vote for Bentley in the Republican run-off? Specifically organized by Hubbert to help Bentley defeat Byrne.

This is party politics at its worst. The only word I can think of that would adequately describe their actions is sickening. So what do you do? Well, for starters, please don't run to the Sparks campaign in an attempt to "punish" Bentley. I think this is probably the very best scenario we could have hoped for -- Bentley won't soon forget that the AEA ratted him out a mere two weeks before the general election. Having a governor who is diametrically opposed to the AEA will help all of us in Alabama, especially our children. Electing a governor who supports gambling in every form and believes that taxpayers "owe" every child in Alabama a college education? That spells d-i-s-a-s-t-e-r for all of us. If you thought Alabama lawmakers could handle gambling ethically, this story should set you straight:


In any event, I encourage all of you to research the candidates that are running for office to determine which ones align with your values, ethics, and the issues that you feel are important. And then, on November 2nd, take the time to exercise your right to vote.

For more information on the AEA's link to Bentley, look here:
DISCLAIMER: These are my opinions only, and are not the opinion of my employer, husband, son, mother, sister, father, cousins, nieces, nephews, friends, or any other being or entity that I could potentially be associated with an shall not be used against me, them, or us in a court of law.

Friday, October 8, 2010

Thursday, October 7, 2010

A little update...

Just a little update, because mommy is quite busy these days.... Our little one is growing into such a cute little boy! He is rapidly developing a rather funny personality, and we love love love spending time with him. We're currently at a total of 4 teeth, 2 top 2 bottom, with a few more seemingly on the horizon. Franklin had developed a rather odd style of crawling over the past month or so, but seems to have realized that it's easier to crawl on all 4's than in his adopted monkey-military man-esque style. Either way, we now hear the "slap, slap, slap!" of his little hands on our hardwood floors in the morning as he makes his way down the hall to see where Mom and Dad are hiding. On another note, Franklin is obsessed. and I mean OBSESSED with fruit. He will eat fruit before anything else. Cantaloupe and honeydew melon seem to be strong favorites, and bananas are right there with them. I really have yet to find a fruit he hasn't enjoyed, except for maybe avocado. He has a funny sense of humor, except that the funniest thing to him lately appears to be the word "no!" Trying to discipline my 11 month old and having him laugh at me has not been fun, I must admit. He's in a wierd in-between stage where discipline isn't really going to work, but where it's often necessary -- like when he bites me. And Frank. And kids at school. No, really. He really should not be biting people. I am hopeful that it's just a teething thing and that once we move past this stage he'll be over it. But he's also chosen to express himself that way a few times, like when I'm trying to have a conversation with an adult and he's annoyed that I'm not paying attention to him and bites my shoulder. Or like when a child tries to take a toy away from him or refuses to give him a toy he wants. Lets hope our sweet child hasn't adopted his parents' short fuse.

Frank and I enjoyed a much-needed vacation last week to Las Vegas while Franklin spent 5 whole days! away from us with Mimi and Papa. He had a fabulous time. I believe they were exhausted. We were very thankful to have a few days where we got to sleep in, stay out late, and eat whenever we wanted. It was amazing. I'll devote a full post to the trip when I have a moment to download the million photos I took off the camera. Until then, enjoy a few pics of the "nugget" (as Frank likes to call him)!